The Opening Move After Your Breakup

After the initial breakup people tend to go a little insane for a while and it is easy to make mistakes because they panic, they:

• ·       Commit text message terrorism, looking for answers

• ·       Drunk dialing, not necessary from alcohol intake but from your emotional state of    mind

• ·       Argue about the breakup

• ·       Contact their friends and family as they do not believe the reasons they are giving us

• ·       Arrange for “Accidental” meetings

Which is all very damaging to any future chances we might have had and it just confirms their decision of the breakup.

What do you Do ?

First, agree to the breakup, if you not past this stage yet, Give your ex their freedom, Say that you feel the same way and it probably is the best thing to do.

If you are past this and have already gone through the crazy stage then write a hand written letter , come across calm and cool and say something to the effect that you know you were acting crazy at the time, but you think that they are exactly right, that you should breakup, then give the letter to them and let them go.

There is such a true saying “People want what they can’t have”

Spend time alone and become ok with the breakup yourself, then you are on the right path to becoming a better version of yourself to get you ex back.

If you are looking for help and guidance with the hand written letters The Magic of Making Up gives you a bonus feature of free templates, that you can use.