Tuesday, November 13, 2018

First Date with your Ex

You have both agreed to go on a first date after your breakup to see how things go and figure out if you should get back together, this will be a really important decision and your future rides on what happens but now the nerves have set in and you are not sure of what to do and what to say.

Giving Your Girl What She Wants

To any man, understanding and perfecting a relationship with a girl can be a huge mystery as women seem to say one thing and want something else entirely. You think to yourself what hope is there for a man to get it right. Luckily, there are a few things that are almost universally wanted by women in relationships today.

Thursday, September 20, 2018

Breaking Up the Right Way

Hopefully you have taken the time to really think things through, you have a plan and have figured out your own feelings and have made the decision if you really do want to leave your relationship and the reasons why. If your mind is still made up that it is time to go, the only thing now is How are you going to break the news?

Reasons for leaving your relationship

People have many different reasons for leaving their relationship. Some are valid reasons, some are quite creative and others are just really bad excuses.

Friday, September 14, 2018

Before Breaking up with Someone – Do This

Life seems to be stuck on the fast forward button, everything needs to happen instantly. A thought crosses our minds and we act immediately. No-one seems to stop to take a moment to actually consider how these actions will affect some-one else and often we are left with regret and can’t understand why.

So if you are thinking of ending your relationship because it is not working out how you planned it or imagined it, it is a decision that should not be taken lightly and definitely not made instantly as you are about to rip your partner’s world from underneath them and break their heart at the same time.

Before you act on your decision, you need to make absolutely sure that a breakup is what you want and need. Make sure it’s not just because you are upset, angry or hurt about something that happened which is temporary and can be resolved. 

To do this you need to take a few steps back and really explore what you are thinking and feeling about your relationship. It is very helpful to write your thoughts down in a question and answer format. Remember no-one is going to see this, only you, so be completely honest with your-self.

Here are some important questions to help you get started with your process:

1.     What are the reasons for your decision to breakup?
2.     Will you ruin your partner’s life?
3.     How will they react to your decision?
4.     Are you still in love with your partner and why?
5.     Have you given your relationship, your very best?
6.     Is there anything you can do to resolve your issues?
·       Communicating more effectively with your partner
·       Working through your issues by forgiving yourself or your partner, would it change things
·       Would Counseling with a professional help
7.     What will life be like after your breakup?
8.     Will you be able to stay friends somehow?
9.     Will you regret your decision sometime down the line?

So please do not act immediately as every relationship no matter how long or short with only one exception being an abusive relationship of course, really deserves for you to make an effort and take the time to work through and sort out your feelings towards your relationship. Just maybe, during your process you will change your mind and decide to work things out with your partner and end up with a happier and stronger relationship.

Thursday, July 5, 2018

Getting Your Girl's Undivided Attention

In today’s world, filled with many distractions from crowds of people to social media, people seem to have a hard time getting each other's attention. Even in loving relationships, getting your girl's attention can be, difficult. However, these tips will get you her undivided attention if you go about them the right way.

Having a Hard time relating to the man you love – Learn Simple Truths

A lot of relationships always have one issue in common which is being misunderstood. Men and Women seem to speak and understand entirely different languages from each other.

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