Best solution is to prevent the breakup

When you have been in a relationship for a long time, you get this uncomfortable feeling in your gut that something might be wrong in your relationship, so you start to pay close attention to the small changes and realize that your relationship is busy going downhill fast. The best solution is to prevent the breakup before it happens as it will save you both the heartache. But, how do you prevent something that seems almost inevitable?

Make Time for Each Other

Making time for each other in our busy lives can be difficult sometimes, it’s the world we live in, I know but, it is so important in making any relationship work and especially if you expect that there are some problems in your relationship,

Three things you can try

·       Date night, if that’s too much then

·       Make an effort to take 10 minutes every night before you go to bed or

·       Get up 10 minutes earlier in the morning

Just make the effort to spend some alone together to connect, even if it is just to discuss each other’s day.

Learn to Communicate More Effectively

It seems to me that when we get to know everything there is to know about someone, we tend to forget how to communicate with each other and that somehow we magically all become mind readers.

But men and women communicate differently. What one person is saying or intends to say is not always what the other person in the relationship hears. This miscommunication often causes problems in the relationship and could lead to a breakup. To prevent a breakup, you need to learn to communicate with each other more effectively.

Show Your Affection

It may be that your life has been so busy lately and you and your partner have neglected to show each other some affection and that you still care for one another which could also cause problems in your relationship.

Showing the person you love some affection does not have to be something big and time consuming, the small things count a lot, so when you are sitting on the couch, watching television cuddle up to your partner we all need a little bit of physical touch to feel connected and then maybe whisper something nice in their ear. It will do wonders for your relationship.

Take the time to compare how you best feel and express love to how your partner best feels loved and expresses love for you and use it to your advantage, this can save a lot of hurt feelings, cold shoulders, disagreements and arguments.

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